I will not donate to ANY organization that spends my donation on junk that they send to me (pens, stamps, nickels, pads of note paper, greeting cards, blankets, etc).
Grandpa has probably worked all his life to take care of his family. He is retired now and has earned the right to take a nap when he wants. The kid does need to learn that everyone in a family needs to pitch in. I had chores to “earn” my allowance.
Unfortunately they must have liked her enough to elect her.