It’s just that people have a hard time finding something else to compliment you on, Amelia. Your amiability? Your helpfulness? Your generally lovely personality? Nope.
No one ever complimented my hair until it turned silver. Now, every few weeks a total stranger will tell me I have beautiful hair. I love it even though I had nothing to do with it (except I refuse to have a little old lady haircut.) But I’m old enough to treasure compliments. Young people are self-conscious. I recall telling a friend (we were both young) that I liked her because she was fun to be around and she took it as an insult!!!
I have a good friend, she’s well over 6ft tall. And, of course, everyone has to say something about her height. It has always been an issue for her. Especially since she’s very blond and very buxom.
I learned from her, no, you’re not being clever making those kind of comments.
Curiously we call that hair ‘red’ even though it’s orange, because there was no word for ‘orange’ at the time – that was just another color of red. Like robin red-breast, red pandas and the old term ‘red Indian’.
angelolady Premium Member about 1 year ago
Seagull has been scarce this week, Red Henry.
Ivy Valory Premium Member about 1 year ago
No, Rose Dearest, you are so not helping.
LrdSlvrhnd about 1 year ago
OK, what’s wrong with complimenting her hair? Gingers are awesome.
Templo S.U.D. about 1 year ago
Perhaps Amelia should sanely try dying her hair a different color instead (fuchsia with turquoise and periwinkle streaks)?
Ida No about 1 year ago
Amelia – If you bring the battery charger, I’ll bring the electric shavers.
imagenesis about 1 year ago
Amelia has issues… lots of them!
jschumaker about 1 year ago
Well Rose, at least you tried.
ladykat about 1 year ago
I think red is a wonderful hair colour.
crookedwolf Premium Member about 1 year ago
Amelia as Will’s “spirit animal”..?
Aladar30 Premium Member about 1 year ago
Starting with Spud’s head!
Diat60 about 1 year ago
It’s just that people have a hard time finding something else to compliment you on, Amelia. Your amiability? Your helpfulness? Your generally lovely personality? Nope.
raybarb44 about 1 year ago
A simple thank you is all that is required when someone pays you a compliment, not all out war….
scyphi26 about 1 year ago
But it’s still nice that you tried, Rose.
WCraft Premium Member about 1 year ago
The younger you are, the less things you have in life to complain about. In adulthood, comments on hair will drop way down the list in importance.
mepowell about 1 year ago
No one ever complimented my hair until it turned silver. Now, every few weeks a total stranger will tell me I have beautiful hair. I love it even though I had nothing to do with it (except I refuse to have a little old lady haircut.) But I’m old enough to treasure compliments. Young people are self-conscious. I recall telling a friend (we were both young) that I liked her because she was fun to be around and she took it as an insult!!!
DM2860 about 1 year ago
Shaving your head would get more comments as people would assume you had cancer.
Durak Premium Member about 1 year ago
I have a good friend, she’s well over 6ft tall. And, of course, everyone has to say something about her height. It has always been an issue for her. Especially since she’s very blond and very buxom.
I learned from her, no, you’re not being clever making those kind of comments.
FlojnirGrey about 1 year ago
To Mr. Henry, can we have more comics with Sterling’s weirdness?
brooklyn51 about 1 year ago
Amelia, thy name is Chaos
joe.altmaier about 1 year ago
Curiously we call that hair ‘red’ even though it’s orange, because there was no word for ‘orange’ at the time – that was just another color of red. Like robin red-breast, red pandas and the old term ‘red Indian’.
Teto85 Premium Member about 1 year ago
My wife, both daughters, and one of the cats are gingers. Life is grand, chaotic at times, but grand.
Faustus Mitternacht about 1 year ago
Being bald as an eagle isn’t fun either, Amelia.
Laurie Sefton Premium Member about 1 year ago
Amelia, just wait until you grow up and the really interesting comments on your red hair start up!