Ugh, it sounds like he’s just looking for an excuse to not take responsibility for his actions (eye roll). And not only that, but he’s happy about it. (super eye roll) We can be stronger than what the generations before us did.
Hello Cathy friends! Happy Thursday! Have a great day, all!
Any time someone brings in their ancestors as the cause of their problems, this is a serious red flag. It was bad enough when my wife kept bringing up how she was ignored by her father while he was running his store when she was five years old. Seriously? My father was in the military and away from home frequently from 90 days to a year.
Eventually you accept responsibility and work with whatever handicap you think you have (we all have something).
I remember the badge Security would wear after-hours at the Renaissance Faire. “You’re not special and neither is your problem.” Humorous with large elements of truth.
C over 1 year ago
That is some world class projecting Cathy
Purple People Eater over 1 year ago
It’s your father’s fault that you were programmed to be distant.
vaughnrl2003 Premium Member over 1 year ago
Yeah, there’s a difference between looking for “something” and “looking” for something. Namely, a target or an experience.
lightenup Premium Member over 1 year ago
Ugh, it sounds like he’s just looking for an excuse to not take responsibility for his actions (eye roll). And not only that, but he’s happy about it. (super eye roll) We can be stronger than what the generations before us did.
Hello Cathy friends! Happy Thursday! Have a great day, all!
mistercatworks over 1 year ago
Any time someone brings in their ancestors as the cause of their problems, this is a serious red flag. It was bad enough when my wife kept bringing up how she was ignored by her father while he was running his store when she was five years old. Seriously? My father was in the military and away from home frequently from 90 days to a year.
Eventually you accept responsibility and work with whatever handicap you think you have (we all have something).
I remember the badge Security would wear after-hours at the Renaissance Faire. “You’re not special and neither is your problem.” Humorous with large elements of truth.
lindz.coop Premium Member over 1 year ago
He’s not kidding…blame it on a legacy burden, but it’s still your responsibility to do something about it.