My question is…when do we guys have rights? I got my “birth control taking” girlfriend pregnant in high school and she had an abortion, but I had no say, but had to pay. I look back and wish I could have met my kid but find solace in that it probably wasn’t mine. A year later, another guy got her pregnant and he wanted an abortion, but she refused and made his life a living hell. So again, why do we take fathers out of the equation? Don’t fathers have rights?