I had two uncles with two very different styles. Say the question was, “Can we have a BBQ?” 1 would answer, “Are you kidding? It’s 90 degrees out, and you want me to fight smoke and fire just so you can have an outdoor cooked burger? You are some piece of work.” The other would say, “We’ll see.” Guess which one was my favorite.
They both helped me mature though, in their own way.