I’m with Gretchen’s Mom and lightenup. Honour any agreements you have made. It is the honourable thing to do after all. I remember an agreement among my wife, her sisters, and her mom – only the kids get gifts this year. All agreed. But one couple did not have kids (yet) so some people bought gifts for them ‘so they would not feel left out’. Right. Another couple were upset because they did not get gifts and other adults did. So much for ‘Merry Christmas’. Way to stressful for me.
Please enjoy your day!