One of the reasons I quit associating with women my age was because, like so many guys my age, it was always constant complaints and whining about this and that, but no interest in fixing what was wrong. What the Bible calls a murmurer..“Oh, boohoohoo, I have so much trouble with guys” “he treated me badly”. But it turns out she only would date the 10% or 20% that every other woman was trying to date. After the 100th time you’d heard it from some girl/woman wanting to wheeze, you didn’t even have to hear it, you could tell her exactly what had happened without her saying it. Maybe a variation on the standard theme, but always the same story..Despite “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus”, it’s not OK for a woman to always be complaining, but to constantly do the things that result in the things she complains about.