At least Joy and Marlene have a dim memory of "Thank You " cards, unlike their insignificant others.When we were growing up, our mother had stacks of cards ready on the 26th and lists of people who gave us gifts. Those cards were written before anyone got to do anything with the gifts. 1. Thank you for the…2. It means so much coming from you and I will think of you, etc. 3. Thanks again.We taught our kids to do that, but alas, the grands have forgotten.