Alan, Alan…if what he says is “harsh reality,” perhaps it’s because people like him keep sustaining and continuing it.
FWIW, I know from personal experience that there are plenty of people out there (guys and gals) who are mature enough to appreciate brains over beauty, i.e. inner beauty over outer beauty. Can’t say I approve of the lesson Alan’s teaching Annie.
What’s sad or sexist about Alan’s point? He’s being pragmatic in showing Annie a reality of the world. He’s not telling Annie to hide or obfuscate her intelligence, only to complement it with an attractive package.
A ways back there was a college study in which young women and men were asked what they desired in a mate. The overwhelming response from the men was " beauty and sensuality" the response from the girls was “good economic potential.”…
invisifan over 12 years ago
Sadly he has a partial point … though the other half of the stand-out equation doesn’t have to be /attractive/ (but it certainly helps) …
Agent54 over 12 years ago
counterpoint in one word;
Hawkins
smart as can be – but socially not there.
live.the.future over 12 years ago
Alan, Alan…if what he says is “harsh reality,” perhaps it’s because people like him keep sustaining and continuing it.
FWIW, I know from personal experience that there are plenty of people out there (guys and gals) who are mature enough to appreciate brains over beauty, i.e. inner beauty over outer beauty. Can’t say I approve of the lesson Alan’s teaching Annie.
StoicLion1973 over 12 years ago
What’s sad or sexist about Alan’s point? He’s being pragmatic in showing Annie a reality of the world. He’s not telling Annie to hide or obfuscate her intelligence, only to complement it with an attractive package.
It would be foolish to ignore aesthetics.
serenasakitty over 12 years ago
Unfortunately, if the outer package isn’t attractive, a person may not have the opportunity to show inner beauty or worth.
Happy, happy, happy!!! Premium Member over 12 years ago
be smart and attractive and you hit two nails with one swing. that is smart.
QuiteDragon over 12 years ago
Hawking. One “G”, No “S”.
craigwestlake over 12 years ago
A ways back there was a college study in which young women and men were asked what they desired in a mate. The overwhelming response from the men was " beauty and sensuality" the response from the girls was “good economic potential.”…
kittylover2 over 12 years ago
Alan is wrapped way too tight.
codedaddy over 12 years ago
How did Annie establish that Alan was referring exclusively to females?
Michelle Morris over 12 years ago
Will Annie’s hair ever grow?