merrie7137 – I agree completely. Both my brother and I were adopted, and I’ve never been able to figure out why it’s supposed to be such a terrible thing. I realize that in the past they tried to ‘match’ children to the adoptive parents because it was often kept a secret, but why? Today, when there are so many blended families, why on earth do people pass it out as an insult? Surely we’re past all this . . .
merrie7137 – I agree completely. Both my brother and I were adopted, and I’ve never been able to figure out why it’s supposed to be such a terrible thing. I realize that in the past they tried to ‘match’ children to the adoptive parents because it was often kept a secret, but why? Today, when there are so many blended families, why on earth do people pass it out as an insult? Surely we’re past all this . . .