All through my youth I felt “sort your self out” and similar meant “Do what I tell you, think what I tell you to think and believe what I tell you to believe, without resistance”.No, don’t do that.Be yourself.But what does that mean?Not much, when you’re young and short on experiences to relate to life.So get out there in the world, meet other people, volunteer, travel, communicate, share and listen. Gain new experiences and views and values and, one day, things start getting more clear.And, if you are lucky, a path will show itself. A path all of your own. Made of your desires, melded with everyone else’s. That is how to be one with everything.