Help me out on this one, folks. Back in the day (the your-place-or-mine 70s) I would see many girls and women wearing T-shirts with provocative, come-on messages, many of them quite blatant, often tinged with s bit of passive-aggressive hostility. One said “voulez vous coucher avec moi c’est soir”, another one straight away said “Let’s F***”. the latter was sported by a 16-year-old I saw on a bus. My question: those message are gonna generate a lot of responses, most of them unwelcome or even downright creepazoid. (I knew better to to fall into that web.) So, why would anyone wear such a message that was never meant to be taken seriously or responded to? What’s the payoff there? Is it some kind of self-destructive unconscious thing? Please answer; don’t just dismiss it as some ditzy fashion trend.
cdward over 8 years ago
Still doesn’t matter what she wore or how drunk she was – he was the one to hit on her. His actions. His fault.
spaced man spliff over 8 years ago
Help me out on this one, folks. Back in the day (the your-place-or-mine 70s) I would see many girls and women wearing T-shirts with provocative, come-on messages, many of them quite blatant, often tinged with s bit of passive-aggressive hostility. One said “voulez vous coucher avec moi c’est soir”, another one straight away said “Let’s F***”. the latter was sported by a 16-year-old I saw on a bus. My question: those message are gonna generate a lot of responses, most of them unwelcome or even downright creepazoid. (I knew better to to fall into that web.) So, why would anyone wear such a message that was never meant to be taken seriously or responded to? What’s the payoff there? Is it some kind of self-destructive unconscious thing? Please answer; don’t just dismiss it as some ditzy fashion trend.
RonBerg13 Premium Member over 8 years ago
A nice BEAUTIFUL spider!
Zaristerex over 8 years ago
Yes, automatically assume your daughter is blame instead of the other guy. That’s a good general rule.