It’s one thing to look at someone and another to stare and ogle to the point of making another feel uncomfortable. How comfortable would you feel knowing that there’s someone who has enormous potential to harm you (as all women have to be careful about in our society bent on blaming the victim) is staring at you with interest? Yeah.
No woman I know dresses in any particular way for men specifically. They dress because they think what they’re wearing looks nice.We’re only a few steps away from the ‘women who wear sexy clothes are at fault if they’re raped’ fallacy here.
“All women’s dresses are merely variations on the eternal struggle between the admitted desire to dress and the unadmitted desire to undress.” —Lin Yu-tang
StoicLion1973 about 10 years ago
To paraphrase the late comedian Robin Harris, “Women don’t dress to attract men, they dress to impress other women!”
geneking7320 about 10 years ago
I think both of you are on point.
renewed1 about 10 years ago
Used to work nights by Lodo in Denver. I really wondered what some of the women who would walk by wearing next to nothing were thinking.
Naomi Dunbar Premium Member about 10 years ago
It’s one thing to look at someone and another to stare and ogle to the point of making another feel uncomfortable. How comfortable would you feel knowing that there’s someone who has enormous potential to harm you (as all women have to be careful about in our society bent on blaming the victim) is staring at you with interest? Yeah.
mrgromit about 10 years ago
Butt-bling.There’s no way a woman would have all of the rhinestones on her butt if she didn’t want guys staring at it.
Angrboda Premium Member about 10 years ago
No woman I know dresses in any particular way for men specifically. They dress because they think what they’re wearing looks nice.We’re only a few steps away from the ‘women who wear sexy clothes are at fault if they’re raped’ fallacy here.
The Rolling Cat about 10 years ago
“All women’s dresses are merely variations on the eternal struggle between the admitted desire to dress and the unadmitted desire to undress.” —Lin Yu-tang