Contrary to what Flea said, I believe that fear is necessary to evoke respect. Fear, in the case I’m arguing for, can stem from not wanting to disappoint someone or subvert his expectations negatively.
The reason one would fear to disappoint this person is because he has demonstrated good qualities as a leader, mentor, friend, fraternal, or parental figure. To let someone so close would be saddening for both parties.
However, in Flea’s case, fear of punishment, but not of disappointing Jill, is what drives Buckles to respect her. His reason is selfish, as he is only worried about his own well-being, rather than the gravity of his careless actions.
Contrary to what Flea said, I believe that fear is necessary to evoke respect. Fear, in the case I’m arguing for, can stem from not wanting to disappoint someone or subvert his expectations negatively.
The reason one would fear to disappoint this person is because he has demonstrated good qualities as a leader, mentor, friend, fraternal, or parental figure. To let someone so close would be saddening for both parties.
However, in Flea’s case, fear of punishment, but not of disappointing Jill, is what drives Buckles to respect her. His reason is selfish, as he is only worried about his own well-being, rather than the gravity of his careless actions.