I tend to think it is not my place to share something about someone that they have chosen not to share about themselves. But I also think that the more we see each other as fully dimensional human beings that we may have something in common with, the less apt we are be nasty. I am grateful to see multiple sides of you. The comic where I see you can be civil and seems to have somewhat intelligent conversation, so maybe it wouldn’t be so bad, but on the other hand, I don’t actually venture into those conversations. . . But if things get ugly for you on the personal front, I will not hesitate to stand up for what I know about you, which is that you have a big and generous heart and soul when it comes to animals, and that, at least to me, says something.
Just so long as it’s not grapes in jello salad. fruit suspended in jello is just nasty.