You need to read “You Just Don’t Understand — Women and Men in Conversation” by Debra Tanner, Ph.D." A real eye opening book.Men don’t look at each other during conversation.
Earl Derr Biggers was an American novelist and playwright. His novels featuring the fictional Chinese American detective Charlie Chan were adapted into popular films made in the United States and China. Wikipedia
My dad was the maintenance man for a church. He was proud of his high gloss floors until one day while admiring it at a church function he noticed how reflective it was. He changed to a flat gloss polish.
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