All the best as you look at options that work for you and Dan. There is no one great answer (unfortunately). May you find peace (and ignore all of our suggestions in favor of following your own plan :) )
Oh – maybe, but they aren’t my style :). I’m more jeans/hiking pants and t-shirt (with flannel or button up on top for cold weather) :). when dressing up, I try to downplay my ‘Apple’ stomach area and emphasize the legs (Since I have them). If I had a longer trunk and shorter legs, I would totally wear heels more…
The mirrors in the car always seem to have the best magnification and lighting :). Just a tip …