Momma, that is pretty gross to do what you’re doing… you never know WHAT you’ll see ;-)
Does Thomas ever stand up and defend his wife?! That is so annoying, and I have had 3 mother-in-law’s who were total b’s. But the husband at the time always defended me to them.
My mother-in-law now (and this is my last and forever marriage) is a sweetheart most of the time. We live with them, it works for all of us.