Yeah, I’ve found it’s much less stressful going by my own criteria.
Some of you have probably noticed that I feel that way about my “jokes.”
I can also be my_own_ judge of my singing talent… no, even I notice that lack….
but I do feel free to judge my own hairstyle, my artistic skill, my taste in clothing…
However, I have found that self-made criteria don’t work very well when discussing one’s driving skill with an officer of the law.