Bernice likes the idea of Piro; he is “sexy”, “mysterious”, and has “strong hands” or whatnot, but she doesn’t truly like Piro himself. His mind, the person he is.
How could she? She knows his taste in movies sort of and his penchant for scarves and disappearing and that’s about it.
Not saying that she should or shouldn’t be with Gunther, but her pursuit of him is rooted in her own head, in a fantasy and not a living, breathing human being. It’s not particularly healthy or a solid way to start off a relationship. The fact that it seems to brings out a really bad side of her, as in very negative and hurtful behaviors to her friends, like trying to push Gunther onto Tiffany for her own sake, doesn’t seem to speak volumes for this match imo.
A good relationship should bring out the better in your partner, yes?
Of course I could speculating on nonsense or this could all be too early to say, but those are my two cents. I’m neutral in regards to who is better with who; as long as they use the opportunity to grow, find themselves, and make healthy decisions that make them happy and seem to work I’m all for whatever that is!
Bernice likes the idea of Piro; he is “sexy”, “mysterious”, and has “strong hands” or whatnot, but she doesn’t truly like Piro himself. His mind, the person he is.
How could she? She knows his taste in movies sort of and his penchant for scarves and disappearing and that’s about it.
Not saying that she should or shouldn’t be with Gunther, but her pursuit of him is rooted in her own head, in a fantasy and not a living, breathing human being. It’s not particularly healthy or a solid way to start off a relationship. The fact that it seems to brings out a really bad side of her, as in very negative and hurtful behaviors to her friends, like trying to push Gunther onto Tiffany for her own sake, doesn’t seem to speak volumes for this match imo.
A good relationship should bring out the better in your partner, yes?
Of course I could speculating on nonsense or this could all be too early to say, but those are my two cents. I’m neutral in regards to who is better with who; as long as they use the opportunity to grow, find themselves, and make healthy decisions that make them happy and seem to work I’m all for whatever that is!