We were indeed living together and still are, except for winters when I go south for a few months :-))
He does contribute his ideas to the house- for example, he has made everything voice activated for me. He helps me with my chicken coop by putting up security cameras and solar lights :-))
I choose all of the finishes and he makes it all automated lol!
Don’t worry, they just need some time to remember that the feeders are there. For the first week that mine were up, I had sporadic visits here and there.
One week later and Wow! Are we busy with them :-))
Oh no!
Renos – they always take twice as long and cost twice as much.
But then you will have a beautiful new kitchen! :-))