Ok, that 4th one was what I did when I spent the weekend with this amazingly cute guy much younger than me. He bought me a plant that I named after him. It was so much fun until 2 days after he left & I found out from him that he had an STD! I guess you could say that he was good about it. I mean, he paid for the treatment & then sent me a pretty opal ring he made for me. I still have it & that was 45 years ago. Nuts, huh?