My husband and I don’t have these problems. He’s always been nocturnal, so he is up doing what he enjoys all night, and I’m up during the day. We enjoy each other’s company in the evening until around midnight when I go to bed.
My grandson was always shorter than his classmates, but when he hit his teenage years, he had a growth spurt. He now towers above me and gives the greatest bear hugs!
It’s a young DeSantis!