Shoulda asked that before.
A truly good friend helps you stop worrying about things you have no control over
Don’t forget the phone police that wad right up there too
Unfortunately I seem to be the queen of stupid in my life. So I really don’t need anymore.
Easy mistake to make
About a year before my dog died I discovered she had become best friends with a feral cat. Not certain how long before I discovered this friendship. She was helping Cat to take care of her kittens and then sending them on their way when the time came. After Dog died Cat mourned so it broke my heart. I started helping with weaning the kittens but had no idea how to send them on their way. Got Mama and any others I could trap fixed and neutered. Mama is still feral her last litter is semi domestic and new cats have moved into the neighbourhood. I just chase those out of my yard.
There are a lot of women who do the same thing. I fussy at all my adult children, then I say that I will wait and see about my own health issues.