Janis, you need to break your addiction to the scale. If walking isn’t bringing you joy, find another form of movement that does. Learn to be happy in your body!
I like to send edible gifts from small businesses; my brother and I agreed to exchange gifts that are unique to our towns (we live across country from each other).
Calvin, I can’t believe you are missing a golden opportunity to splash in puddles and sing & dance in the rain!