A perfect capture of the psychobabble that was the inevitable result of over-analyzing the ineffable nature of human attraction. And people are still making million$ peddling it…
I’ve found I am overly aggressive with 50% of women I am interested in. The other 50% don’t find me aggressive enough.
They were perfect for each other. Maybe too much perfect.
Good advice. Is never. Where you. Look for. It.
He could have saved himself years of seminars and therapy, and just asked her out, but noooo.
This is why you should listen to Janis Joplin.
Neat Venetian-blind shirt the guy has.
On a similar note, I’ve always wondered about those get-rich seminars. If they made it rich, why are they giving seminars in order to make some money?
Don’t hesitate, strike while the iron is hot – ‘course you’re probably gonna’ get your hand burned that way…
Sounds like my younger days….luckily, we both found our soul mates.
I’ve encountered this juxtaposition before, the more aggressive: grab life by the horns and the more laid back: zen-like approach and have had success with both. It’s baffling at times, but it helps to be open to both options. When I gave up trying to date, when I was younger, I decided to go back to school and get a second degree, this time in Music. And, of course, I met a girl in one of the ensemble classes, who later became my wife.