You always run the risk of apologizing for something she didn’t know about.
Try some make up sex. At least you both will feel better!
The most passive-aggressive thing a person can do is the “you know what you did” approach. It means even they don’t really know why they are upset; it has nothing to do with you. I call that behavior “acting like you want to be alone” and give that gift.
“Crabby” is this Gal’s middle name