Frazz by Jef Mallett for May 10, 2021

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    cdcoventry  6 months ago

    Hmm, I was always told as a kid it was rude to flatly ask strangers who they are and instead as the person I know for the introduction…once I got older, I was told it was better as an adult to ask the person directly. Phases and stages.

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    Sisterdame  6 months ago

    @cdcoventry: it is NEVER better to talk about a disabled person as if he/she is unable to understand you.

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    Concretionist  6 months ago

    Cute. And true-ish. Though lots of people are uncomfortable just coming up and introducing themselves, so if there’s a co-friend present, they often act like Caulfield did here.

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    socalvillaguy Premium Member 6 months ago

    I think Caulfield handled this appropriately for his age.

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    The Old Wolf  6 months ago

    I’m sure Patty gets frustrated with being “talked over,” but Caulfield’s question was not inappropriate. She went overboard with her response. Caulfield is right in this case.

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    Carl  Premium Member 6 months ago

    And I thought Caulfield was being polite; speak to the one you know so that they may make proper introductions.

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    RitaGB  6 months ago

    Her wheelchair didn’t keep her from being rude.

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    Jeffin Premium Member 6 months ago

    She seems nice.

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    MS72  6 months ago

    In general, people are anxious around people that are different. (We are ALL different.)

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    cervelo  6 months ago

    Introduction protocols aside, social awkwardness is a thing. People with disabilities meet people without disabilities all day long, but not the other way around. In this exchange, Caulfield is at a definite disadvantage. Patty played him like a fiddle. Good for her, you gotta have fun, especially if it’s at Caulfield’s expense.

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    David Wolfson Premium Member 6 months ago

    …and where did Ms. Plainwell go during all this?

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    Lambutts  6 months ago

    In all fairness to the character who addressed Ms Plainwell (I’m bad with names, sorry), most people would not go up to a total stranger and say “who are you and why are you in a wheelchair?” That’s just rude, even if you haven’t been taught politeness from an early age. And as one who spent 17 years teaching in Special Education, you nailed Patty’s attitude toward that opening question. Some remain obnoxious, others become your best friend. I’m hoping for the latter in this instance.

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    nos.nevets  6 months ago

    If she were standing, it would be polite to ask, “Who’s your friend, Ms. Plainwell?”, but not if she is disabled. Don’t treat disabled people as if they are normal.

    Does that rule work for all victimhood classes?

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    trainnut1956  6 months ago

    SJW alert!!! He was ASKING to be introduced. Among polite people, it is considered rude to walk up and talk to somebody you haven’t been introduced to. But manners aren’t something one should expect from young people these days.

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    Yakety Sax  6 months ago

    I like her!

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    magnus  6 months ago

    If Ms Plainwell had been in the wheel chair and he had asked who her friend was, the person pushing the chair would not have had a mental melt down.

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    sandpiper  6 months ago

    Caulfield in being introduced to several new concepts today. Be interesting to see how this progresses, if it does.

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    944im Premium Member 6 months ago

    my wife is prepping for new knees and hips and so I push her around wherever she needs to go, I have noticed people talk over her head, rather than TO her, even from medical professionals.

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    scherzo  6 months ago

    “I thought I was the obnoxious one.” I thought you were, too, kid. And then there are the very strange folks out there who are utterly charmed by everything Caulfield says and does.

    Thanks, Mr. Mallett, for setting the record straight.

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    Glass_Chameleon Premium Member 6 months ago

    Hmmm, Given that the design of the Wheelchair is most like the kind used in hospitals designed for temporary use and to be pushed by someone else rather then one that would be used by an independent person with a mobility problem that’s to be propelled by the user( And the fact that Ms.Plainwell is pushing her) It seems that her reason for being in the wheelchair is most likely temporary or recent.

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    pumaman  6 months ago

    He could have said, “Hi Ms Plainwell.” and then addressed her friend and said, “Hi, I’m Caulfield.”

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    scaeva  6 months ago

    Actually, he’s being polite, except it would be better to say, “Please introduce me to your friend,” which has become the casual, “Who’s your friend?” But this gives the overly-sensitive-entitled-because-handicapped person the opportunity to be aggressive. Yes, I know our society is dismissive of the injured and disabled, but before you see an insult, consider the intent. Before you ask: I have several disabilities. I’m fortunate that they usually aren’t apparent, which makes people think they aren’t real. That’s a real insult, when you think about it.

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    Richard S Russell Premium Member 6 months ago

    All the comments so far have passed right over Patty’s little joke about how she’s going to look like a clunky remote-controlled robot when she tries to stand up. That’s self-deprecating humor at its finest. I’ve co-opted a similar line (which I may have picked up from this very strip): “People don’t realize how old I am until they hear me stand up.”

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    Banjo Gordy Premium Member 6 months ago

    In the early 1970s I enjoyed the companionship of a group of folks of all ages who had CB radios. One was a young man with chest & leg braces in a wheel chair with the handle of “Ironsides”. I took him to the movie ‘Airplane’. Quite a job to lift him in & out his wheel chair.I parked in the isle next to my isle seat. When the audience roared in laughter at pilot’s crude comment, my friend somehow bumped the brake lever, & rolled down the middle isle at a great rate with me chasing him. When I caught him almost at the front of the screen, audience roared a cheer. My friend just loved the whole incident as people waved when I pushed him back up the isle.

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    Stephen Gilberg  6 months ago

    I think Patty chose angled glasses so she can look angry or mean all the time.

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    Moonkey Premium Member 6 months ago

    I think Caulfield has found his attitude match and they will be good friends.

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    danketaz Premium Member 6 months ago

    Patty Plainwell?

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    asrialfeeple  6 months ago

    Am I correct in thinking Caulfield has a girlfriend here?

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    spaced man spliff Premium Member 6 months ago

    A lot of people speak more loudly to seniors, thinking they’re hard of hearing.

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    STACEY MARSHALL Premium Member 6 months ago

    HOWSOWHOMEVER: in this situation, he was merely asking for an introduction, from Ms. Plainwell, who knows them both. THEN, maybe he would proceed to a conversation with Ms. Uptight.

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    JerryBryson  6 months ago

    Is Jef introducing a new permanent character here?

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    Cactus-Pete  6 months ago

    I agree that he was absolutely correct to ask the person he knows for an introduction. Patty seems to have issues.

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    hmofo813 Premium Member 6 months ago

    I think it might have been more appropriate for him to say, “introduce me to your friend?” or something to that effect. But I would never presume to introduce myself.

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