Do they pay Mom and Dad to fix their meals, do their laundry, buy their clothes, etc? It’s a two-way street if they’re going to behave that way. They need to understand that taking care of a household is a team effort. I can see paying or giving them something special if something is out of the ordinary or requires a lot of hard work. That gives kids a little extra incentive. Regular household chores is something everyone needs to do.