IF I could maintain SOME of the wisdom I FINALLY gained over DECADES instead of being almost gormless and so fecking naïve. I would do it over. I’d want specific memories intact so that I could find my other half earlier than almost 3/4’s of a lifetime later and four emotional, mental and abusive train wrecks later. By the way, I was blessed. I never was bitter. Overly angry (I was far more justified to be angry or turn out psychotic, believe me) or even morose. Yes, IF we could repeat things and change a few things, I’d be sorely tempted. (Even at the expense of missing out on my two children…they’d be someone else! <3 <3 have a great week! )
Concretionist about 3 years ago
What goes around comes around… and BITES!
amethyst52 Premium Member about 3 years ago
Dramas and traumas. I wouldn’t be a teenager again for all of Bill Gates money!
Bob Blumenfeld about 3 years ago
The law of Conservation of Misery rears its ugly head once again.
Joseph Shelby Premium Member about 3 years ago
hey Val, it gets better.
TheFiddleBackSpider about 3 years ago
You Val you could have just hugged her and said, “I’m there for you.” and not end up bawling yourself
kab2rb about 3 years ago
Val that is the trick to make Holly happy now you Misérable. Realty check.
mama2emma about 3 years ago
Forget the college sweethearts, work hard, save up, and spend that summer bumming around Europe. When it’s safe, of course.
Night-Gaunt49[Bozo is Boffo] about 3 years ago
My mom had her first at 17—-me then 2 more before dad had had enough and lit out. But we survived and did okay.
loonygardener about 3 years ago
IF I could maintain SOME of the wisdom I FINALLY gained over DECADES instead of being almost gormless and so fecking naïve. I would do it over. I’d want specific memories intact so that I could find my other half earlier than almost 3/4’s of a lifetime later and four emotional, mental and abusive train wrecks later. By the way, I was blessed. I never was bitter. Overly angry (I was far more justified to be angry or turn out psychotic, believe me) or even morose. Yes, IF we could repeat things and change a few things, I’d be sorely tempted. (Even at the expense of missing out on my two children…they’d be someone else! <3 <3 have a great week! )