In a truly good marriage, you don’t have to be verbal. You know what your spouse is thinking, will say, and wants. That is why at a restaurant you see an elderly couple not talking – they do not need to.
All kidding aside, Dan and I talk a lot, but sometimes we just like to sit and enjoy coffee. (I’m not sure we were terribly exciting to begin with, haha!)
The ex and I got to that point eventually, but I always found him to be a great conversationalist with me. He’s an introvert so isn’t comfortable talking a lot with groups of people or others in general. It’s when he quite talking to me entirely that I knew we were in trouble. He could talk about anything under the sun with me before, but somehow couldn’t find the words to say anymore.
Boots at the Boar Premium Member over 3 years ago
If your marriage is exciting, there’s a good chance you’re in a toxic relationship.
stairsteppublishing over 3 years ago
In a truly good marriage, you don’t have to be verbal. You know what your spouse is thinking, will say, and wants. That is why at a restaurant you see an elderly couple not talking – they do not need to.
Melki Premium Member over 3 years ago
Give it another decade or so, and you’ll reach the stage where you only have to grunt at each other. Bliss!
coltish1 over 3 years ago
Like sands through the hourglass, so are the Days of Our Lives®.
Actually, I find that if you look for the worth of each moment, you don’t have that “life is slipping by” feeling.
anarresa Premium Member over 3 years ago
Having coffee in a cafe would be soooo exciting now! I can’t wait.
Teto85 Premium Member over 3 years ago
That’s what life is like in the Duhkotas.
Perkycat over 3 years ago
My husband and I have had this conversation. We always find things to talk and laugh about, though. We would laugh about having this conversation.
Amanda El-Dweek creator over 3 years ago
All kidding aside, Dan and I talk a lot, but sometimes we just like to sit and enjoy coffee. (I’m not sure we were terribly exciting to begin with, haha!)
BJIllistrated Premium Member over 3 years ago
The ex and I got to that point eventually, but I always found him to be a great conversationalist with me. He’s an introvert so isn’t comfortable talking a lot with groups of people or others in general. It’s when he quite talking to me entirely that I knew we were in trouble. He could talk about anything under the sun with me before, but somehow couldn’t find the words to say anymore.
katina.cooper over 3 years ago
And the coffee is good because it’s not the usual microwave instant coffee that you usually have every day.
RonBerg13 Premium Member over 3 years ago
What!!?? No donuts?
LisaMarieWills over 2 years ago
I identify my self and husband with this. We are also boring people.