I used to read Ann Landers’ column as a teen while going through similar angst. I still remember her description of what “love” is: “Love is friendship that has caught fire”. I read that 50 years ago and still remember it.
Well Gord, according to the ancient Greeks there are three forms of love. The first two you likely already know about. Number 1, Agape, the highest love, is the love of God, and the love for a mother and father and motherly love of her baby. Number 2, is Philia, brotherly love, sisterly love, and the love of friends. Which you have here. Number 3, is Eros, physical love, such as what happens when you are older and get engaged to be married. You’ll find that out when you grow up.
Once, there was a guy in my office and we were just friends. I was just about to fix him up with my sister when I realized I wanted him myself. We’ve been married 60 years…
This makes me so sad that I feel like crying. I married my best friend and thought it was forever but after 23 years of marriage he walked out on me end of March of this year and we are now going through a nasty divorce that he started. I am so happy for all the ones who have been married to their best friend for so many years and wish I was still like you all.
Templo S.U.D. over 3 years ago
one wonders, Gordon, on your final remark
Faith :) over 3 years ago
This is adorable. Little do they know that they are in love.
mnexplorer+ over 3 years ago
They just found out.
Ray Helvy Premium Member over 3 years ago
Don’t worry, kids. You’ll figure it out.
littlejohn Premium Member over 3 years ago
I’m thinking — Casablanca: “You know, this could be the start of a beautiful friendship.”
Scarlet Shimmer over 3 years ago
“I like you a lot”
“I like everything about you”
“You’re cute”
Yeah so we’re TOTALLY not in love guys, not at all.
dlkrueger33 over 3 years ago
I used to read Ann Landers’ column as a teen while going through similar angst. I still remember her description of what “love” is: “Love is friendship that has caught fire”. I read that 50 years ago and still remember it.
jamessveta over 3 years ago
I think you just answered your own question. There are people who have been married for many years that wish they had that kind of relationship.
dcdete. over 3 years ago
Well Gord, according to the ancient Greeks there are three forms of love. The first two you likely already know about. Number 1, Agape, the highest love, is the love of God, and the love for a mother and father and motherly love of her baby. Number 2, is Philia, brotherly love, sisterly love, and the love of friends. Which you have here. Number 3, is Eros, physical love, such as what happens when you are older and get engaged to be married. You’ll find that out when you grow up.
FrannieL Premium Member over 3 years ago
Who did Gordon finally marry when he grew up?
nmb41 over 3 years ago
Yep. It’s good to be best friends and be able to laugh together. It’s a long day between breakfast and bedtime,
DawnQuinn1 over 3 years ago
They have just discovered what love is really all about. It is how the other person makes you feel about yourself.
Aladar30 Premium Member over 3 years ago
Sigh…
Yardley701 over 3 years ago
I wonder when they will realize that they have found true love.
kathleenhicks62 over 3 years ago
Yes it is correct friendship is a part of the “love” bit. I think the longest lasting & best.
Golf Buddy over 3 years ago
Once, there was a guy in my office and we were just friends. I was just about to fix him up with my sister when I realized I wanted him myself. We’ve been married 60 years…
Jim2g over 3 years ago
I think they have found love
vaughnrl2003 Premium Member over 3 years ago
One of these days the switch will flip and they will know. Unfortunately, it will probably be when they are married to someone else.
Bob Blumenfeld over 3 years ago
Oh – my – goodness.
M2MM over 3 years ago
These two sound like my husband and myself when we were in high school. LOL
LOUHABY over 3 years ago
Gordon and Tracy got marrjed.
Watchdog over 3 years ago
Sweet
CitizenOfTheValley over 3 years ago
I chose to marry my best friend. Best decision of my life.
jamescordeiro over 3 years ago
Hopefully they will realize that they are a couple.
raybarb44 over 3 years ago
J hope they do…..
InuYugiHakusho over 3 years ago
Sooner than you two think….
timbob2313 Premium Member over 3 years ago
Lookin for love in all the wrong places
comix4joyce over 3 years ago
the last panel says it all…best friends first, great marriage that lasts next! 40 years for us!!!
j.l.farmer over 3 years ago
i think you just found out!
Space_cat over 3 years ago
Better to find out when you are young that Adulthood is nothing but a series of compromises and bitter disappointment!
Jan C over 3 years ago
Being married to my best friend for 37 years and counting, I love the last panel. They will figure it out, one way or another.
coffeemom88 over 3 years ago
What they don’t know is that true love starts with friendship and the enjoyment of each others’ company. So . .. .they’re learning, though :-)
Back to Big Mike over 3 years ago
“FRIENDZONE”
fuzz3942 over 3 years ago
Awww, true love begins.
Billconner Premium Member over 3 years ago
Just beautiful, Lynn
asrialfeeple over 3 years ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tdCY0CgMoq8
Night-Gaunt49[Bozo is Boffo] over 3 years ago
And there goes the crowning irony.
Ukko wilko over 3 years ago
And they can’t see the forest for the trees.
Sambora1 over 3 years ago
This makes me so sad that I feel like crying. I married my best friend and thought it was forever but after 23 years of marriage he walked out on me end of March of this year and we are now going through a nasty divorce that he started. I am so happy for all the ones who have been married to their best friend for so many years and wish I was still like you all.