The Buckets by Greg Cravens

The Buckets

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  1. M2MM

    M2MM said, 8 months ago

    Sad, but true in most cases of widowers.

  2. unnormal

    unnormal said, 8 months ago

    @M2MM

    I’m not a widower, but I’m Old & Alone (snif), and I have really enjoyed getting creative in the kitchen; creative, quick, and clean.
    And NO MICROWAVING!!!

    But then . . . my case ain’t MOST cases, huh?

  3. unnormal

    unnormal said, 8 months ago

    Hm . . . one reason I’m Alone, I suppose, is that I never — well, RARELY — cooked before I was.

  4. sea-green

    sea-green said, 8 months ago

    @unnormal

    Awww… well, it’s never too late, especially now you have your culinary skills to recommend you!

  5. unnormal

    unnormal said, 8 months ago

    @sea-green

    Yeah . . . and I growed up some, too!

  6. dotweasl

    dotweasl said, 8 months ago

    My mom died when she and my dad were 54. He’s now 76 and still waits for someone to fix him a plate when we get together for dinners. I don’t think he knows how to turn on the stove.
    .
    Not meant as a slam on him, but he’s of a completely different era. He’s shocked that my husband can and will put together a complete meal on his off days.
    .
    I love Frank—he’s like my dad in so many ways. It’s like you have a front row seat in our house, Greg!!

  7. celecca

    celecca said, 8 months ago

    my husband has cooked exactly 2 meals in our 10 years of marriage. he’d live on lunch meat sandwiches or chicken bar-b-q hot pockets if it was up to him.

  8. david_42

    david_42 said, 8 months ago

    My mother got herself a big pile of paper plates after my dad died. One of my nephews made her a holder in woodshop. It says, “Grandma’s China”.

  9. david_42

    david_42 said, 8 months ago

    And on topic, dad never had any problem cooking when necessary and did most of it when camping. Born in 1922, but always felt people should be able to take care of themselves.

  10. OldestandWisest

    OldestandWisest said, 8 months ago

    In my family it was just the opposite, my Mom’s father was a doctor, so they always had servants, so she didn’t know how to cook at all when she and my Dad got married. But she developed into quite a good cook by the time I could notice, although she didn’t particularly like to do it.

  11. treesareus

    treesareus said, 8 months ago

    The problem is “cooking for one” isn’t easy, no matter how good of a cook you are. Doing it day after day is a pain. Why make all that mess for just a small meal?

  12. Allan

    Allan said, 8 months ago

    I just bought a Panasonic Microwave (refurb, on sale for $60) and I can hardly wait to buy a bunch of
    http://www.michelinas.ca/otherproducts/english/

  13. Perkycat

    Perkycat said, 8 months ago

    My husband loves to cook – has even cooked a whole Thanksgiving dinner. I’m a good cook but not my favorite thing to do. I’d do the microwave thing but too much bad stuff in those dinners.

  14. chromosome

    chromosome said, 8 months ago

    My dad is a 97-year-old widower, and regularly eats lunch at a local diner (good for social contact) and eats microwave dinners, supplemented by fruit and desserts. I think those microwave dinners with meat and vegetables can be pretty good. I eat my main meal at work or scrounge together mainly vegetarian meals when I’m off work.

  15. blather046047

    blather046047 said, 8 months ago

    When my niece moved from dorm to apartment, her mother gave her a cookbook called “Help, My Apartment Has a Kitchen!”

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