A friend of mine Carol had her mother do this with her kids. Her mother undermined everything Carol asked her kids to do and let them break all the rules that she set for them. After constant requests to get her mother to stop and respect her wishes for her mother to let her raise her kids her way and getting nowhere she just banned her mother from seeing the kids. Drastic I know but she came to that decision after her mother let them walk into town a distance of 2 miles and spend the day there and walk back again. Her kids at the time 7 and 5, far too young to do such a thing on their own.
A friend of mine Carol had her mother do this with her kids. Her mother undermined everything Carol asked her kids to do and let them break all the rules that she set for them. After constant requests to get her mother to stop and respect her wishes for her mother to let her raise her kids her way and getting nowhere she just banned her mother from seeing the kids. Drastic I know but she came to that decision after her mother let them walk into town a distance of 2 miles and spend the day there and walk back again. Her kids at the time 7 and 5, far too young to do such a thing on their own.