So sad. Think about what you are doing before it becomes a problem. Yes, that would mean before you fall into the sack with that hunk. You have rights. You can say no unless there is adequate protection to prevent conception. But that isn’t a prefect solution so “stuff” happens. So you sit around and ponder baby/no baby. For 5 months. According to the information found on this popular web site (well, popular with those who are overjoyed at the prospect of creating life) the following is true.http://www.pampers.com/20-weeks-pregnant“His brain has been working overtime developing the nerve centers dedicated to his senses, and they’re coming alive.”So, yes, when you stab into his little brain he feels it." You’ve probably felt your baby rolling, diving, and kicking inside your belly."Yep, that baby is responding to stimuli, testing his limits, expanding his horizons … well up until you have the Doc cut his little neck.So sad.