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   Leo Autodidact said, 11 months ago

   Lila, it doesn’t ALWAYS mean that.
   However SETTLING does!
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   Phatts California said, 11 months ago

   … yah, that pretty much goes along with the old adage that every food that’s good for you tastes bad …
   
   . . . also true . . .
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   Kydex29 said, 11 months ago

   There’s no proof of the existence of a “gay gene”: while people are born with different sexual tastes, a homosexual lifestyle is a decision. So while not easy, it’s entirely possible to consciously reject that lifestyle. The big problem here is that Matthew isn’t being open about his homosexual inclinations: if he’s not shooting straight (pun intended) with Lila now, it’s not going to get better.
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   sassy1 said, 11 months ago

   Hock the ring,
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   sassy1 said, 11 months ago

   @Kydex29

   Unfortunately you are misinformed on so many levels. Parents have said they knew when their child was 3 years old. Explain that.
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   soap12 said, 11 months ago

   Numerous studies with identical twins (who have identical DNA) have, indeed, provided ample evidence that homosexuality often has a genetic element. Despite what many people would like to believe, homosexuality is seldom a choice. Very few people consiously choose to be attracted to the same sex.
   It is true that living a homosexual lifestyle (participating in homosexual sex) is a choice, but it is also true that living a heterosexual lifestyle (participating in heterosexual sex) is a choice.
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   sassy1 said, 11 months ago

   @soap12

   SO, TRUE.
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   JWF said, 11 months ago

   Why would I “choose” a life of discrimination and hate towards me? Being gay has been a very difficult life. If you don’t understand that, you don’t understand what it’s like to be in a minority that is prejudiced against. And yes, sassy1, she should hock the ring, LOL!
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   Wyntre said, 11 months ago

   If she’s calling off the engagement, she should give the ring back! Etiquette.
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    Cokiefan said, 11 months ago

    @Kydex29

    If its a choice, like you state, I would be curious to know when you decided to be straight?
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    Pharmakeus Ubik said, 11 months ago

    @Kydex29

    The lifestyle is the choice. Lila’s betrothed, assuming he really is gay, chooses the closeted lifestyle.
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    sassy1 said, 11 months ago

    @JWF

    Very poignant reply John, I knew you you would post back on that one. I had (when I lived in So CA) 6 different gay couple friends.. Even though they knew I was an older straight female, they were wonderful to me. Had so much fun with them. I miss them so much.
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    Night-Gaunt49 said, 11 months ago

    @Kydex29

    Can you say the same for a heterosexual lifestyle?

    
    

    And there are plenty of bi-sexuals who deny it even though when they are hard up for sex they will do so with men. But only as a top, never a bottom.
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    Night-Gaunt49 said, 11 months ago

    Maybe Lila should ask him first before doing all this stuff on her suspicion. (Hint:she could be wrong.)
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    sassy1 said, 11 months ago

    @Night-Gaunt49

    Somehow I don’t think so!
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