women in general, attractive women in particular, want nothing to do with decent guys. I propose 3 reasons:
1 – looks make you shallow.2 – women are only interested in guys they think they can’t get3 – why have someone decent when its more fun to complain and gossip about a jerk?
I have never met a girl or woman who was interested in a genuinely decent guy for very long. Yes, sometimes they accidentally marry a decent guy, but they inevitably cheat on him with some jerk, then blame their husband. The only way to keep even a marginally attractive woman interested in you is to treat her like she doesn’t matter to you.
Your other option is to date/marry someone so unattractive and dull that you are her only option. And even she won’t hang around any longer than it takes for a thuggish jack@$$ to pay attention to her.