Why ask to define more? Girls KNOW what the guys want. She is just stalling for time – a sure sign she is nervous and probably a little scared. The first time is a scary territory for most girls. And the first time sets the tone of the rest of the girl’s sexual life. If it is good, she will like it and get comfortable and confident. If it was awkward, the girl will hesitate and wait for a long time before trying again. If it was bad, she will feel unconfident and withdraw as she may feel it was her fault. If it was rough or careless, she will dislike it and not ever have it again for God knows how long or go the other side. Girls are so sensitive about the first time so it becomes an important milestone in a teenage girl’s life so she is right to be a little scared.