When you’re not on the same side as them, they’re arguing, and it’s your mission to make them “come to the right side, again”… lol!
It takes two to argue.
It’s not arguing, it’s just contradiction. An argument is an intellectual process. Contradiction is just the automatic gainsaying of anything the other person says.
Brad: “No, I’m not arguing, SHE is!!!”“No, HE is!!!”“She is!!!”“HE is!”“SHE is!!!”Mom: “No, you’re BOTH arguing, so quit it! I mean, why can you just get along, like other families do?!”
Maaaaaaaaa! He’s looking at me!
She has a point..
The same way it takes two to fight but only one to beat. Unless the one attacked fights back, there is no fight.