that can be good or bad. If they don’t like you because you are a good person, while painful, it’s good..A couple weeks ago, I ran into my first crush. She looked about 15 years older than she actually was. Like most women my age, she’d gotten into drugs and worse. It was strange, but I didn’t have the slightest interest, despite having practically worshipped the ground she walked on for 4 years in junior high and high school. It was like meeting a different person; after living the GenX women’s lifestyle of party, drink, sleep around for 25 years. I thought she was going to have a heart attack on the spot. And yet I couldn’t pity her because she’d always been adamant about doing what she wanted to do, no matter what it did to others. .A wasted life. Lived in complete selfishness.