I dunno, I think taking care of someone you love, or being cared for, can feel romantic.
Long term or thankless stuff is wearying, of course, as is a petulant patient, but a little cuddling when someone feels bad is a nice thing.
On another subject….
You know….. clicking on an avatar takes you to a profile page, which shows the last 10 comments that person made.
If they’re all negative blustering, you know it’s just a sad bid for attention.
So I vote to pay it none.
While this may seem to be some, it’s all in general….not about anyone specific, of course.