For Better or For Worse by Lynn Johnston
- October 06, 2009
- From Beginning
- Previous feature
- Show Calendar
- Next feature
- Current

Register for a FREE GoComics account and get this plus any other comic strip delivered to your Personalized Comic Page, Daily. With a free account you will be able to build a Comic Page filled with the Comics you want to see each day.
With the largest collection of Comics and Editorial Cartoons online there is plenty to choose from. Upgrade to a Comic Genius account (Only $.99/Month) and have unlimited archive access to decades of comics.
Register for a FREE GoComics account and get this or any other comic strip daily emailed daily. Comics and Editorial Cartoons are updated everyday so there is always something new.
With a free account you will receive one comic from your Personalized Comic Page daily. Upgrade to a Comic Genius account (Only $.99/Month) and get all of your comics emailed daily plus receive unlimited archive access to decades of comics.
Since its debut in 1979, For Better or For Worse has touched comic strip readers as few cartoons ever do. Cartoonist Lynn Johnston’s eye for detail and her uncanny sense of what real parents and children struggle with daily are a big part of her success. The world has watched the Patterson family grow up in real time, and to many readers, the Pattersons feel like family!
Parents and children alike will relate to the obstacles that the Patterson family faces. Curfews, parent date nights, babysitting, pets and distractions are all hurdles that the Pattersons must overcome in order to enjoy each other as a family. They face the same obstacles that real life families do, which is what makes them so loveable.
© 2009 Universal Press Syndicate - All Rights Reserved.
Copyright © 2009. UCLICK LLC, All rights reserved. Terms & Conditions - Privacy Policy


Comments (26) Jump to Comments Form
mroberts88 said, about 1 month ago
Yeah, time constraints are usually a problem.
OpenWings said, about 1 month ago
Ahh well, they won’t be little and at home forever ;o)
howtheduck said, about 1 month ago
Since Elly seems to spend all her spare moments eating or drinking with Connie Poirier or Anne Nichols, I would think that Elly’s rarely having time to read was more dependent on Connie or Anne than Mike or Lizzie. Nevertheless, I can always get behind a woman who blames her children for her inability to find the time to read a book. Now that’s great mothering!
Ronshua
said,
about 1 month ago
Yeah , I thank I read that one !
Avolunteer said, about 1 month ago
I don’t think she’s whining; just realistic. She has her children with her when she is with Anne &/or Connie, so they are not left alone. And if she is an avid reader she well knows that she may not hear something she should if she tries to read while the children are awake (or even napping…) I also don’t think she is blaming the children, just again being realistic.
WORDMAN33 said, about 1 month ago
Read during commercials, you would be surprized at how much you can get done.
Macushlalondra
said,
about 1 month ago
I’d just be looking forward to when they were both in school and I had a little more time to myself.
ComicDetectiveDA said, about 1 month ago
Last panel: I like how Lynn draws her characters laughing with their mouths wide open and their tongues sticking out.
Allan Claus said, about 1 month ago
I see the future … where she owns a book store.
GuntotingLiberal said, about 1 month ago
Obvious that you don’t have kids, How. You should hang about sometime when my girlfriend and I go to lunch with her 3 year old and my 13 month old.
Every other minute your attention gets wrenched off topic because the kids are throwing food on the floor, or want another bite, or are trying to reach for your cup of coffee, or want you to show you their belly button, or want to use the fork, or want what you’re eating…
Sometimes it’s hard to even hold a conversation that has complete sentances.
bald 716 said, about 1 month ago
open your own book store and put in a small children’s section and keep the kids there with you
Jogger2 said, about 1 month ago
Clean up at table 10.
Susan001 said, about 1 month ago
Mike is in school full-time, and I’m sure Lizzie still takes naps. Surely, that would leave an hour or so to read.
She can also read in bed, like so many married people do.
LOL
newworldmozart said, about 1 month ago
Notnorman, just because someone decides to become a mom doesn’t mean that everything suddenly becomes a bed of roses. Tell me are you doing what you want to do it life, and are you completely happy at it with out any complaints? When a woman is talking to a woman about their life it isn’t complaining, it’s talking it through. You don’t understand it because you’re a man, and when a man hears a woman they instantly say that they are complaning.
Coffee-Turtle
said,
about 1 month ago
I’m sure she wouldn’t have traded those kids for the world… ;-)
Wildmustang1262 said, about 1 month ago
Elly can have her time to read the book before she goes to bed. Just read few pages of the book and then go bed and light out!
howtheduck said, about 1 month ago
WRT GuntotingLiberal saying, “Obvious that you don’t have kids, How.”
FYI, I have 2 children and unlike Elly Patterson, I have still managed to find time to read. If anything, I read more since I have kids because, also unlike Elly Patterson, I read to my kids, something she is never shown doing.
Your example of when your girlfriend and you go to lunch with her 3 year old and your 13 month old is not reading. That’s going to lunch and trying to hold a conversation with kids around. If you are in that situation, do you say to your girlfriend, “Thanks to my kids, I don’t have time to read”? I hope not.
Rmom said, about 1 month ago
I’ve read to my kids for years, however, in the early years, the books they wanted to hear read weren’t the kind an adult wants to read for herself. I was able to read while breastfeeding the oldest, but after that, I didn’t have much time to read until the youngest started reading. Naptimes were used to get chores done that I couldn’t do with kids awake (like paying bills, making business-type calls, etc.) and by bedtime, it was either time to pay attention to my husband or fall asleep exhausted. Since I always homeschooled my kids, I didn’t have a whole lot of “me time” but I have no regrets about being a full-time mom for the last 20 years. Once the youngest could start reading, I finally felt like I had time to start reading for pleasure again. I love reading, but I love my kids more.
BlitzMcD said, about 1 month ago
Elly IS indeed being realistic, rather than parroting the polticially correct lines just to placate others. Her candor is refreshing.
Lachplesis said, about 1 month ago
It IS more important and necessary that we, as parents, forego our pleasures .. the time we dedicate to our children will come backtous a blessings without number..
Morning Star said, about 1 month ago
I would like to know why you have started over from when Michael and Lizzie were small. What happened to Michael and his wife and daughters and Lizzie with her boyfriend(s)?
howtheduck said, about 1 month ago
In response to Morning Star’s question:
Lynn Johnston’s explanation for starting over is at this website:
{http://www.fborfw.com/behindthescenes/hybrid/}
Except you put an underscore between “behind” and “the” and “scenes”. For some reason this box is changing the underscores to an italics indication.
masnadies said, about 1 month ago
You can be very happy with kids and still have things you complain about. Similarly, you can be single and working and have things you complain about. Happens to most of us. The person who is constantly happy about his situation is very wise but extremely uncommon.
When the kids are sitting quietly eating dinner or doing a puzzle together, it doesn’t make much of a strip. The fights and hassles have more drama- as do the cute moments, which show up here but much more with April- when Lynn is older and appreciates the little things more, as most of us do. And very few of us are perfect parents- we all get tired and grumpy and frustrated- for all parents, not just SAHMs, it’s a job you never leave.
I do read- at the Y, after the kids are in bed… I should probably be cleaning because my kids do not nap at the same time, but you have to let something slide… if you never do anything you enjoy, to sacrifice for the kids, you are a pretty miserable parent. It’s all a balancing act.
I’m not sure why the strips that I like the most because the people in them are human and have faults (which I like since I have so many myself), are the ones that people hate the most because the people in them have faults…. oh well, just the way of the world I guess.
Burgundy2 said, about 1 month ago
@discoEd Re, yesterday. I guess you got what you wished for. Thanks to your comment, I am completely inhibited about saying anything anywhere. I keep second guessing myself - am I showing off? I’m consigned to a lurker, it seems.
lightenup said, about 1 month ago
@Burgandy2 - You made me curious, so I read yesterday’s comments after I left mine. I’m not sure what you said, but you didn’t offend me. discoEd seems to want to jump on people and try to make them feel insecure, but I’ve gotten over people like him long ago. I typically don’t nitpick on grammar, spelling, inaccuracies, etc, but Elly’s comment just sort of stuck in my mind, so I commented on it, no more no less.
Anyway, please don’t be a lurker. Feel free to comment and don’t worry about the ones who like to jump on others. Everyone helps the world go round in their own way…
Burgundy2 said, about 1 month ago
Hi lightenup sorry to get you caught up in this. I don’t know if you saw, you asked about Elly having “brains”as opposed to a brain, and I thought I was helping by explaining the euphemism. DiscoEd felt I was “showing off my intellect” which is such a reviling thought that I deleted my comments.