I read your post from yesterday. Good for you! These are hard steps to take, but in the long run, it’ll make things so much easier and you’ll have one less hurdle to jump. I remember how hard it was to explain to my mom why she should put me legally in control of decision-making. It was a heart-breaking experience. But, once that was in place, everything was a little easier.
Soldier on, sugie! …and lean on us whenever you need to. There’s a lot of experience hanging out here that’ll probably be helpful to you as time goes by. So many of us have been where you are now.